How does one succeed in life?
13.06.2025 01:39

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Hangs out with loser friends.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
What was your worst experience while living with roommates?
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Procrastinates a lot.
Do not set goals—set systems.
Why do Indian parents force their kids to do stuff?
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Making more friends is a goal.
How can I earn money through OnlyFans?
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Why do people think Justin Bieber is worse than Joseph Stalin?
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Can supporters of gun control explain the purpose behind a gun registry?
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Does not procrastinate.
That's it for today.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Is it ok for someone to crossdress in public?
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Was there a British ‘genocide’ of Aboriginal Australians?
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
Ask yourself:
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Do all therapists specialize in one specific type of therapy, or are they trained in multiple types?
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
Why am I so triggered and depressed over a minor thing?
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
What I need from you?
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Do empaths fall easier for abusive people?
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.